I don’t wanna identify as nonbinary anymore :(

I love the term it really describes how I feel but now i’ve been seeing it on a lot of nonbinary is attention seeking and these people get UPVOTED and the people who disagree on this get downvoted. Am I just attention seeking. Am I just a woman who is living in my own fantasy of also wanting to be a boy. They say being misgendered isn’t that bad but they don’t know how it feels…

It may never be taken seriously and that is ok but I thought you of all people should understand what it is like to be invalidated. We have been oppressed and now I feel like I don’t fit into the one place I am supposed to feel safe because I am apparently attention seeking when it comes to being nonbinary…

I understand are brains will naturally look at how we look and see us as that gender but they don’t understand what it is like. No one understands and I am exhausted. The people who defended nonbinary people got downvoted and I am so tired. Might as well not use they/them anymore because no one understands me so I am exhausted and done now…