I don’t feel adequate and I’m already 19 weeks

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Since I don’t really have anyone that I can talk to personally about this, I’m posting this here on a throwaway account. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and just broke up with my bf I was supposed to be doing this with. Ever since the breakup, I realized I don’t think I really want to continue the pregnancy at all.

I feel disconnected from it, and honestly the idea of doing this alone makes everything feel even harder. I’m seriously thinking about getting an abortion.

Has anyone else gone through something similar after a breakup? I just need to hear from someone who’s been there. I know relationships are rough and just from reading through other posts, it seems pretty common unfortunately :(

Posted Dec 10, 2025, 3:00 AM UTC

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