Progress of patriarchy in Ahmedabad/Gujarat/india

Patriarchy, men and society have finally progressed!

Earlier the husbands would tell their wives what to wear, who to meet, keep silence in their in laws house.

Now men tell their wives how not to express their emotions, achievements or disturb in laws peace. God forbid if they learn to change a little for a new person in their lives. But husbands still get to keep their wives shut and out of his family dynamics.

Only if men were given away in marriages with women to build their own life together instead of this imbalance of absorbing husbands life and erasing any past, any behaviour, any achievements, any food preferences, any clothes preferences, any opinions for the women.

To older generations of women, today’s married women have it all, barely home chores, get to work. But they dont understand the mental and emotional load todays married women carry cause of their incompetent relationship dynamics added with their awful alpha nature with extreme control over her family’s nervous system regulation.

And men are just sitting there, in the middle. Taking zero stand, hoping either of the women when calm down will understand them. But this is a doomed dynamic. Only more hurt, resentment and suppressed emotions.

Does anyone relate?