26 [M4F] #São Paulo or #Online In search of a domme for preferably long term play
Who I am: As you may guess from the title, I'm 26 M in São Paulo. I have been involved with the BDSM community for most of my adult life, although mainly through online experiences (I did have some in person experiences as well). I'm a switch, but I'm fine with being strictly submissive toward a given person. In other words, if you are strictly dominant, that's fine by me.
I don't like to talk much about my personal life in these introductions, because I want to remain anonymous. As we get to know each other, I may be more willing to talk about personal stuff. For this reason, I usually prefer to keep initial conversations either NSFW, or SFW about non-identifiable stuff. I'm generically considered to be nerdy and work on STEM.
Who you are: Kinky-wise, you understand neither you nor I are kink dispensers. You are looking for someone to have kinky interactions with, and maybe you only care about the sex, but you understand I'll not obey you blindly just because you want that. Yet, you do expect me to be obedient within boundaries. As an example, I won't cum without your permission, but you will pay attention to whether I can actually stand your commands. We're here to have fun, not to play boss.
SFW-wise, I'm generally curious. I like to meet different people, but I'll probably get interested in you if you work on STEM, or maybe something with geopolitics, languages, etc. I'm very curious generically. Honestly, as long as you treat me respectfully and understand that BDSM is sort of like a theater play, we'll probably get along well =)
Kinks: I tend to be very open minded. My favorite part about BDSM is establishing a partnership and a trust bond, and the detailed kinks are more of an accessory. If you have your favorites, let me know about them. Maybe I'm curious about some of them.
My most recent kinks are tease and denial, edging, small penis humiliation, cuckolding, orgasm control in general, maybe anal (I have some plugs), a bit of chastity (I have a cage), and so on. I'm quite curious about experimenting more with censored porn and a friendzoned beta type of relation. I'm often curious about trying new stuff too =)
I am bisexual, although I prefer girls much more. You may explore some sort of "forced bi" or etc with other subs or something.
As long as you are patient and understanding, I keep an open mind.
Toys: I have a few butt plugs, a chastity cage, a male masturbator, a lot of condoms, lubes, and numbing lube. I'm willing to buy more stuff.
Limits: Intense pain, toilet stuff, involving people I know, etc. I'll let you know if I'm uncomfortable.
Thank you for reading this far! If you're interested, let me know through a chat message, preferably. I'll be glad to talk and know more about you, and/or answer any questions you may have =)),
Posted Dec 10, 2025, 3:01 AM UTC