From the available evidence, was my wife banging some well endowed dudes before me?

Before I start, this isn’t something that bothers me. If anything I find it hot. However I think my wife is a little shy about discussing it and maybe doesn’t want to hurt my feelings.

When we first hooked up, she used to keep a bottle of lube by her bed, saying that she usually needed it to get things started. She said it was because her previous partners didn’t know how to get her wet enough. She stopped using the lube with me. In hindsight though I wonder whether the issue was a previous partner just struggled to fit it in without lube.

Another thing she used to ask me in the early days was whether I thought she was ‘loose’. She said it was something she was worried about. Again, was this because she had stepped down a few sizes when she started seeing me?

Like most men we’ve discussed my size etc and she did admit that she noticed I was skinnier than normal, and definitely not the biggest she had slept with. She of course reassured me it was ‘perfect’. Again, all fine with me, but is it likely there were maybe some absolutely hung men in her past that she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings over?

Do women just sometimes need a bit of lube anyway? And is worrying about being loose just a common thing, a bit like men worrying about their small appendages?

Grateful for your thoughts!