Suggestions Mindy. Here’s a list!

1. We know you don’t think Liam is on the spectrum; fine. You can get him some child friendly headphones so he wouldn’t feel too overstimulated when out in public. There is no shame in having them on him. Many parents have used them and are using them.

2. Take him and Emma out to children’s museum, aquarium, etc. my advice take them in the morning when the building is opening up. It’s least crowded (if you’re concerned about the crowd).

3. Take him to the park early in the morning to let him burn his energy out. So he wouldn’t be taking 1000000.00000000.0000000 naps a day 🙄

4. Spend AT LEAST 30 mins of arts and crafts with him and EMMA. Do it consistently so he can have something to look forward to. If you’re concern about mess, lay a garbage bag on the floor so all the mess can be dropped on there so you have minimal clean up to do, and he can help as well. If you see they like it bump it up to 1 hour. But I’m giving 30 mins; so your “cozy time” wouldn’t be interrupted 🙄

5. Take him to story time at the library; I know you “did it once” from what we have seen 🙄. But grab a calendar from the library so you can see what activities/events they have for children. Most of them time they have stuff weekly or monthly.

Now these are 5 things; 5 SIMPLE things you can do WITH THE CHILDREN YOU WANTED; YOUR MIRACLE BABIES.

I think many of us here are OG parents, teachers, former teachers and you’ll think you would take advice from us but yet you call us haters, block us, delete comments; meanwhile we don’t really care about you; we are genuinely looking out for YOUR KIDS because YOU don’t give two shits about them. So with that said, you can take it or leave, because right now you are not the “mother” people were expecting you to be.