Hi, I’m 20 years old and a diagnosed narcissist. I’m very shallow emotionally and was wondering how I can start dating.

I’m not sure if women don’t like me because I’ve heard I’m very monotone and not expressive. I want to start dating but I feel like the lack of personality at times holds me back. I’m very confident and “suave” at times as a 5’8 dude who benches 315 and reads philosophy all the time. One moment I want to be all into the stoic mindset of working out, reading and focusing on my job and career. But on the other hand, I’d like a real genuine relationship with someone in compatible with. Any advice for me?