AITAH for getting irritated with my girlfriend

i’m (24f) starting to get slightly irritated with my girlfriend (20f) and i feel really bad about it.

to start with, she keeps mentioning the fact that i don’t come on to her and making little comments about us not having sex. the main reason for this is that, as she knows, i’ve been having a lot of issues recently that basically mean i can’t have sex and i don’t exactly feel very sexy or turned on very often. she’s aware of this but keeps persisting.

second of all, i have pretty severe OCD. now, i know this isn’t her problem, but she comes into my house and causes me issues with it. she’ll sit in places or touch things that are ‘dirty’ to me, and when i tell her that and say not to, she gets annoyed and sighs or something. again, this is something she’s been aware of since we got together. she also keeps wearing her shoes around the house and on my carpets, which i’ve mentioned so many times and it still happens and then i get stressed 😭

we also were arguing a lot recently, and things have been good for a couple of weeks. however we’ve not been seeing each other that much this week, and when she came over last night, one of the first things she said was basically that we never do anything anymore and blaming me for it. i told her that she never wants to come out with me and my friends but she expects me to come out with hers and gets upset and says we never do anything if i say no. she then said she’s gonna get annoyed if we carry on speaking so we changed the topic.

i also just still feel like there’s something weird in the air between us and i can’t figure out what it is. i keep asking her what’s wrong and she just says everything’s fine, but i can tell she’s off. sometimes it’s like getting blood out of a stone with her, and she’ll eventually tell me after hours of asking that something is actually wrong.

anyway, i feel like i’m going crazy and getting irritated with her and i’m not asking her over as much due to this because i’m not having the best time mentally at the moment and i just want to be as relaxed as possible away from that.

AITAH for this?? i feel bad for these little things getting to me but they are.