[F48] - I tried. I really did. But I’m done with under-40 men.

I dropped my age limit for a few weeks because people kept saying “give the younger guys a chance, times have changed.”

Every. Single. Time:

• 5 messages of actual conversation → immediate “send bob” or “what’s your size”
• Another 10 messages. So, whom are you getting fucked with tonight?
• First 3 messages, and so, what are your kinks?
• I say “slow down, let’s talk first” → instant “you’re too uptight” or “prude”
• I give polite feedback → block + “ego hurt” rant in my DMs
• Worst ones: straight-up ignore when I say stop and keep sending dick pics anyway

I’m not a prude. I’ve done things that would make half this the people here blush.
I just want conversation before cock. Mood before sext. Consent that is actually respected, not treated like a speed bump.

The 40+ men I talk to?
They ask how my day was, remember what I said yesterday, wait for the green light, and when the light turns green they ruin me beautifully. They discuss ideas, they discuss maturity, they discuss things, they discuss philosophy.

So yeah, the rule is now cast in stone: 40+ only.
I’m too old for fragile egos and zero patience.

Younger guys, I tried with: I wish you well, truly.
Your generation clearly has its own language.
But this 48-year-old is going back to men who know how to talk to a woman before they talk about fucking her.

Rant over.
Back to my silver foxes.

A lot of people might be inquisitive on what happened. Here is the anecdote.

Latest example (Last night):

Chatting geopolitics, Central Asia books, India strategy, 20 solid messages.

Then, out of nowhere:

“Spread your legs, pull your panties aside and spread your pussy lips.”

I called him out: if this was in your head the whole time, I was just a brain attached to a masturbation toy.

His reply: “You’re overthinking, it was just a vibe.”

No.
Geopolitics → instant crude sex talk = I was never a person to you.

Not a prude. Just done with boys who can’t see past my cunt.

40+ only. Hard rule.

---- G
(still horny, Still chatty, still bubbly. Just no longer charitable)