I have no anxiety going out and socializing w ppl but once im in my university classes i am so anxious and don’t talk at all.
In my own life im outgoing, I moved on my own abroad, am active in community, made so many friends just by going out whether with ppl or alone, exercise free will to the max, and most social events I would go to I would end up chatting in strangers flats till morning ahahaha. No social anxiety.
But then the moment I step into my CS classes I’m so anxious, I fear feeling dumb compared to my classmates, I am so shy and keep to myself , I have trouble connecting and just feel nervous even abt the idea of group projects. I don’t know how to handle this. I’m in my 4th year and never worked on a group project, nor made any friends within my CS classes bc I just stay quiet out of shyness. Idk why it’s such a huge switch! 😭 I hate it bc there’s ppl who are passionate and are friendly tht I want to talk to but I just hide myself.
Posted Dec 11, 2025, 9:42 AM UTC