It is almost 4 am and I am beyond exhausted.

My twins are 18 months now. Lately they have been refusing to sleep through the night. We lay them down with milk at 8 and they usually fall asleep, but they are waking 2-4 times each in the middle of the night. They’re constantly waking each other up. I can’t take it anymore. I’m working 40 hours a week, an hour away from home and my husband just started his own business. It’s a lot. This has been going on for 3-4 weeks and I’ve had multiple crash outs/meltdowns. I need advice or kind motivating words.. we can’t keep doing this.