No car, no house, about to divorce (Will county, IL)
Hey all,
Throwaway here. Any tips on the best way to have a car without complicating the divorce process once it starts?
I have a full-time job with good income, but as an immigrant who moved to the US 4 years ago (recently naturalized), I own pretty much nothing outright yet.
A few questions I’m stressing about:
• Do I still have to live in the same area during the divorce, or can I move somewhere more affordable (different city or even state)?
For the car, should I:
• Rent one short-term
• Lease something reliable
• Buy a cheap used one
• Go for my dream car (probably not lol)
• Or move to a walkable area and skip the car altogether?
And timing-wise:
• Before filing for divorce
• During the process
• Only once it’s finalized
Any tips for housing too? I don’t want her to accuse
me of dissipation of assets if I rent an apartment or stay in hotels/Airbnbs temporarily.
All ideas and experiences welcome – especially from anyone in Illinois!
Thanks everyone!
Posted Dec 11, 2025, 9:46 AM UTC