gay chat… anyone actually find anything real here?

ok so I’ve been on this “chat gay” app for like… a month? and honestly I’m not sure if I’m doing it wrong or if ppl are just here to troll.

half the guys are super flirty for like 2 messages then disappear. some are older dudes dropping “sugar daddy” lines and I’m like… is this serious or just memes?

not gonna lie, I just wanna actually meet someone who isn’t catfishing me or just bored. anyone here actually met someone legit through these apps?

pls tell me I’m not the only one getting ghosted constantly 😂