26 [F4M] #online sub looking for experinced dom
Hello, I am looking for an experienced dom. Someone who has had a few subs before and had different experiences. I have a bit of experience but I am mostly looking for someone who can guide and lead the dynamic. I want someone who has taken the time to learn how to be a good dom with research, not only experience. I’m looking for someone who will have conversations outside of the bed too. Someone who genuinely wants to have someone added to their daily life. I want someone I can flirt and laugh with.
I am looking for someone who will put in effort and time. I want someone creative and passionate. Someone who can find new things to do in the bedroom. I like having tasks and rules. I like someone who will follow through with enforcing them. On the other hand I want someone who feels warm and safe. I want someone who is looking to improve and add to my life, not just take.
Someone who can't handle being challenged or questioned will not survive me. I in general like to submit but I also will push you to see if you can actually follow through. Just saying to do something without earning my submission will not happen. I do mean earn it. You will have to prove that you are worth my time, effort and energy. You are not owed it.
I’m open to people who live in most places as this will be online. We can talk and see if time zones line up. I'm looking for someone who is also fit and active. Someone who takes care of themself. Someone with hobbies and goals. I ideally want someone in the age range of 25-35. I’m not looking for someone who is in school as I don't believe they have the time necessarily. I don’t want someone who already has a sub for the same reason. I do have to be attracted to the person to an extent for there to be something to build off of so be prepared to send a picture. Face is not required at first but I need a good sense of who you are. In the same thought in your message take the time to explain some of your experience as a dom, what you like to do for fun, your age, location, and kinks.
Posted Dec 11, 2025, 9:49 AM UTC · locked