He's talking to others π
I'm a 32yo stay at home mom and he's 36 and works. I could go on and on about my DB for days lol. But we've been in one for 6.5 years of our 7 year marriage. And I've been defending him for the longest time saying nahhhhh he wouldn't cheat or anything because he claims he's asexual and doesn't want sex and blah blah blah... But tonight? I hugged him goodnight and saw a female pop up on his phone on snap. π He's been talking to women.
Annnnnnd this was very guilt-relieving for me. I won't feel guilty for having my escape plan from the narcissistic controlling asshole anymore. I won't feel guilty for talking to others to get a scrap of attention that isn't negative. π
Just kind of a freeing feeling, that's all. Nice to know Mr. Self-righteous isn't so squeaky clean like he claims. Am I gonna call him on it? Nope. Only if he tries to accuse me of cheating on him. π
Anyway. That's all. I'll probably post again when I've actually left within 6 months or so.
Posted Dec 13, 2025, 10:22 AM UTC