M23 3 months Help me

I have developed a habit of constantly researching and comparing the characteristics of different genders, and this behavior has started to bother me quite a lot—particularly when it comes to sexual traits and responses. For instance, when I recently discovered that women release higher amounts of oxytocin during intimate moments, I experienced a strong sense of jealousy and discomfort. I genuinely like being a man, yet this incessant comparison between male and female traits creates a persistent inner tension that I cannot easily shake off. Every time I come across information highlighting a positive trait associated with being male, I feel a temporary sense of satisfaction and relief. I wonder whether it is possible to completely overcome this pattern of thought and stop constantly measuring myself against the opposite sex. From a psychological perspective, what would experts say about this issue? How might a modern psychologist, or even Freud if we consider his theories on envy, identity, and gender, interpret this recurring preoccupation with gender differences and the emotional reactions it triggers?