For context, I’m 20 and he’s 19. We were in a relationship for 3 years. 1 year na nasa Pilipinas s’ya then 2 years sya sa Qatar and recently lang bumalik ng Ph for college. It was an abusive relationship pero it was a cycle. We officially broke up last May 2025. When he got back sa Ph nung August he tried to reconcile w me pero after talking for weeks I realized na I was really being abused. Supposedly iend namin lahat and babalik nya yung gamit ko but we ended up having a fight and he physically and sexually assaulted me. I was lost and traumatized pero I was working on filing a VAWC case. When things are starting to make progress, I found out na I was pregnant due to the SA he did the last time we met. I told my parents and I told him. Isinantabi ko sarili ko kasi I want to give what’s best for my unborn baby. We talked and sabi n’ya susuportahan n’ya. He would go back sa Qatar para magtrabaho since wala naman syang natapos dito. I want him sana na magkaron kami ng written agreement about child support and have it notarized para sana if ever takbuhan nya ko kahit papano mas may laban ako. He told me he would go to me today and sasamahan na din ako for my first ultrasound and some lab tests but when I woke up he just blocked me out of nowhere. Now I’m panicking, I’m anxious, and I don’t know what to do. Nabibigla ako and I’m so stressed. Why are men like this? 

Why do men blame you for getting you pregnant