What should I do?
30M here. I found a match around 1 month back and we have been in regular talks. We have met multiple times now in past one month.
The problem is I am not 100% attracted towards her. I sometimes feel that the other matches which didn’t work out were better looking than her.
Also, she is a bit stubborn on some things. She straight away says this is who I am and I won’t listen to anyone. Like I casually mentioned to her that if you lose some weight you will look better and she became angry with this topic.
She genuinely puts in efforts to talk and meet but sometimes I feel we have different mindset and also i am not 100% attracted towards her.
Any suggestions how to navigate this?
Posted Dec 13, 2025, 10:29 AM UTC
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