Do you do cold DMs for traffic to your Skool?

šŸ‘‡šŸ» If you have a copy/paste DM you send on other socials to get folks to your skool and feel ballsy, drop it below šŸ˜‰

I get them often on my other socials, even from ā€œskoolersā€ that musta run out of their dm quota 🤪 and sometimes if I feel spicy I’m like do you know there is a better way to actually have it work more often??

Just like with managing a community or situating your about page, there is def a better way and a not great way to do cold DMs.

šŸ‘€ First things first, and I have heard Hormozi talk about this… take 2 min to check out their social page, most folks don’t and it’s one huge way to show you just don’t give a shit, and just like creating your vsl, if you don’t give a shit why should anyone else?

For example, I have folks telling me I should start a community for my audience… they obviously didn’t check my page at all to see the skool link in bio šŸ˜‚

Then, words fucking matter.

If all you do is shoot a generic AF message that we all know is copy and pasted to everyone and their mom, especially in the age of AI, how does that make you stand out?

šŸ¤” Next? Speak directly to their pain points, the issues you see them currently struggling with (based on your 2 min of looking at their page)… give examples.

Your tools and methods are great, but they shouldn’t be the focus, you speak directly to their issue and to the dream outcome they get after working with you.

šŸ˜… Use human language, not coach jargon and fancy shit that really doesn’t say anything at all. Then? Ask a question, not just ā€œwanna get startedā€ cause that feels pushy and like they are just a dollar sign to you and likely won’t make them feel valued.

Make it more about starting a conversation instead of shouting at them from a podium and you might just find it works more often, even though it takes you a few more minutes over blasting everyone with generic BS, but it might also garner you better clients and results in the long run šŸ˜‰

šŸ‘‡šŸ» So, have you tried cold DMs? How’s it working for you??

Worse comes to worst, think about what it’s like when you get cold DMs, what gives you the icky or makes you go meh and block? Don’t do those things yourself 😜

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Posted Dec 13, 2025, 10:30 AM UTC

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