I met a fellow sapiosexual in the nightclub. He became less flirty eversince we talked about our knowledge, and now he ghosts me. What did I do wrong?

Last month, I (26F) went to a night club and met this guy (27M). Lets call him bear, hope he doesn’t read this HAHAHA. Bear and I repeatedly sit next to each other that night, he lingered his arm on my shoulder (and I felt comfortable). Later on, I realised that bear and I have the same religion. Alright. Potential alert. Fast forward, we exchanged insta and we talked for 2 weeks.

We chat a lot about life values, psychological theories (I FREAKIN LOVE THIS), history, and even our religious background and all the controversies. Who would’ve thought, we shifted from night club flirts to late night talk on human existence. I got turned on whenever he started talking about how our religion shaped his culture, and how psychological theories explain the cause of our actions. He also told me that his idol is not a celebrity or an athlete, but a HISTORICAL FIGURE. What a rare breed. He mentioned that he is “a bit of a sapiosexual.” Well, I would imagine if I marry someone like him, I would spend my whole life talking about different theories and/or histories EVERY DAY. He sent me 20 NOTIFICATIONS A DAY to talk about this. Whenever I saw my apple watch notification at work, I smiled.

The problem was, I realised he became less-flirty eversince we talked about our knowledge. In his very first message to me, he used heart emoji, and he flirted with me in the night club. He called me “my heart” in his language and he asked me to dance with him. Then we exchanged knowledge, and thats when he changed. Two weeks later, he invited me to his apartment. I was surprised, he was far less touchy. He only did handshake. And after that, he stopped texting me. I wonder why…..