My bf (M26) said it was my “fathers” job to make me happy.

For context I have been with my partner for nearly three years and have communicated with said partner about how I have been feeling unloved and we aren’t physical anymore, barley kiss and rarely are intimate these days. I can’t even remember the last time he complimented me or made me feel good about myself. Yet he is so quick to compliment every other females around when he’s with his friends. I’m bringing this up now as I feel so insecure with myself and feel like I’m not enough. Our most recent argument he stated “it’s not my job to make you or anyone but myself happy it’s your dads job not mine”

EXCUSE ME!!! From what I recall once you decide you want to be with someone it’s BOTH your jobs to make each other happy and consider their feelings through your actions and words. Is this normal ???? Is this what relationships are like these days you just get into a relationship and worry about yourself ONLY.

I brought this here as I’ve been called crazy and mental for the way I react now and how I cause arguments, yes I’m only this way because of said partner.