What if you could search for a spouse without ever being visible to incompatible people, and without seeing incompatible people?

How It Would Work:

Step 1: You answer 5 non-negotiable questions:

• Children: Yes/No/Unsure
• Religious practice: Very/Practicing/Somewhat
• Substance views: Against/Flexible/Accept
• Marriage timeline: Urgent to flexible
• Financial approach: Traditional/Shared/etc.

Step 2: The system uses your answers as filters:

• People who don't want children NEVER see you if you want children
• People with incompatible religious views NEVER see each other
• You only appear to people who match your requirements
• You only see people whose requirements you match

Step 3: When you do match:

• Photos are blurred initially
• Basic info only (age, city, first name)
• Contact info completely hidden
• To connect: mutual request → acceptance → gradual disclosure

The Privacy Promise:

• No public profile browsing
• No random messages from incompatible people
• No awkward rejections (incompatible people never meet)
• Photos protected until mutual interest confirmed
• Contact details only shared when both ready

So my main question: Is this solving problems you actually experience, or am I overthinking this?