Thoughts?

I don’t know how to act or what to think. We’ve been having a lot of downs lately but I thought it was because of work/ money stress anyway we had a huge fight a couple days ago and he mentioned how stupid I am for wanting higher end stuff which I was incredibly shocked with because while I do like designer stuff but he hasn’t bought me anything crazy expensive for 4 yrs ( extra details) we’ve been together for 4yrs in those years I haven’t received birthday gifts, anniversary gifts, and Christmas gifts. Which is fine I never asked nor did I really care. He got a bonus at work and told me he really wanted to buy me something nice I said you don’t have to but he insisted so I finally picked a purse not to pricey ( compared to the expensive bags I have from before the relationship) anyway it was $900 well he bought it and I was happy I thought great moving on..well no he has been bringing up how stupid it is to want a bag that pricey I said sorry that’s what I’m used to he got upset screaming I don’t make as much money as your dad.. I was stunned at the words coming from his mouth it sounded like he hated my dad for giving me a life he can’t keep up with ( I get he might feel insecure about it but yelling at me for gifts my parents got me is crazy no?) He said awful things about how I’m stupid for having designer stuff. I was confused and asked him why he bought the bag if he was gonna throw it in my face every time he said I didn’t get it because I didn’t work for the money ( SAHW) I replied with that’s what you agreed with since the beginning. (Anyway he’s significantly older than me) I love our marriage but I’m not dealing with a man constantly throwing money in my face so main question I just got added to all his accounts ( he wanted it) I really didn’t and now I really don’t lol so should I fill out the paperwork to be removed? Start making an escape? Get a job? HELP ( feel free to ask questions! Open book) oh oh he also mentioned he gave me an inch and I want 2 miles lol something like that