28 [F4A] #GMT #Online Conversation, friendship, kink

(For full disclosure before you read, I'm in a long-term relationship, and I'm not looking to change that. Connections will be online only)

Online dynamics can feel so transactional, can't they? Task-focused and goal oriented. What's the bare minimum we need to know about each other before I call you Sir and beg you to cum?

I'm looking for something a lot more meandering. A kink-adjacent friendship, even. Maybe that's all it is. Life is stressful, and sometimes lonely, and there's something so affirming about getting to know someone, and being known in return.

There's definitely a version of this that turns into something long-term and enduring. Daily messages, and deep feelings. But let's not pressure it.

I'm a 28yo cis woman, service-oriented sub with (occasional and optional) switch tendencies. I work in a stressful health-related field in a job that I both love and hate. Maybe you do too. Movement, exercise, and team sport are a big part of my life, but they don't have to be a part of yours. I like to think I have sarcasm and empathy in equal measure but I can't always promise to get the balance right.

I'm liberal and politically opinionated - any variation on sexism, racism, homophobia or transphobia need not apply.

Ideally you're over 25 - I don't have an upper age limit and all genders are welcome. So long as we relate to each other, we're good. I tend to get on well with people who have hobbies and passions, even if we don't share the same ones. Emotional intelligence is always king.

Please don't message me if you're just looking for a quick fix. You'd be wasting both our time.