For men, what do you guys think in a woman who sends lengthy paragraphs?

Hey guys. I am 23F, NBSB. Although, I had these "almosts" but really never ended up with any of them. Just this year, I started to explore and connect with people, whether it be online or in person. One thing about me that I can share is that I am a straightforward or honest whenever I am in a talking stage with someone. Apparently, I think these guys would think that as an ick about me. I shared this trait of mine to a friend and she said that "Oh girl, you shouldn't have done that" (also said I can write it on my notes but never send it to the person). But I find it frustrating if I won't tell my honest thoughts and observations to someone.

For example, I was talking to this guy and we were long distance and just met online. We were kinda in a situationship but I don't want to admit that because I don't even want to be in a situationship. I would always wanted to be yearned for like not to be pabebe but is it really rare for men to yearn and put some effort nowadays? So frustrating if it really is lol. Me, as an honest person, I would mostly find myself typing these paragraphs to guys who cannot meet my emotional level and I would literally point it out agad if they are just so good with words but that's just it, barely putting an effort.

Now, I actually wanted to know some insights from men about me sending lengthy paragraphs whenever I feel like it and with a purpose of letting the guy know about it so he can work it out himself. I know I am no perfect but I guess my emotional level is just high up to the sky istg haha