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SSS_Tempest

Losing Home, Don't Know Where To Go.

Advice

My (29M) family and I (Sis and Father) need to leave our current home in a few days and in a nutshell, I DON'T want to stay with my family anymore.

This is the second time this sort of thing has happened to us (the first being in early 2020) and its mainly thanks to the poor decision making of my father who, despite being in his early 80's, is still sound of mind and body and still holds the sway in our immediate family.

(Shameful for a man who's almost 30 to still have to answer to his elderly father I know, but them's the breaks when you're broke).

Long story short, I'm sick of being circle jerked around like this and want out of whatever the plan afterwards is, but the problem is I've no place to go.

I have a steady flow of income from a full time job but saving enough money to get even just a room would take at the BARE MINIMUM a month (and that's not even taking into account the bills I've got to pay for my car and whatnot amongst other necessities).

I've two other siblings who have their own places but can't fit me (not their fault, just how it is) and I can't find any (m/h)otel cheap enough for me to be able to save while staying there.

Besides just "going along with it", what other options do I realistically have?

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 2:56 AM UTC

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