Questions about the lifestyle (from a potential fat girlfriend)

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So I (25F) have recently started talking with a man (29M) I met on Tinder. I am quite plus sized and He has made me aware of his love of feeding women and obsession with my belly. He never explicitly used the term fat fetish or feeder but from what we’ve talked about that’s what he is into. He is normal sized.

Despite being plus sized my entire life, I’ve never experienced this kind of thing. I was hoping to hear from couples who practice this fetish or men who are into it. I just want to get a better idea of what he really wants from me so I can decide if I want to pursue this kind of relationship.

If you need more details, please DM me and I will share. I am trying to remain somewhat anonymous since we talked about a lot of private stuff.

Mods, I apologize if this post is not allowed. I’m truly just trying to get some answers before one of us gets hurt.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 2:57 AM UTC

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