40 [M4F] Michigan/online - Introverted bhm Dom looking for my sub
Hello. I hope you're doing well. I'm a 40 year old single bhm (fat) Dom from Michigan looking for my sub. I'm not an expert, so I don't know all the specific terms for everything, but I'm looking for a woman who feels the same way I do about certain things. Not everything of course, I want you to be your own person with your own wants, needs, and interests. I'm looking for a sub, but also a life partner, so I'm not interested in something that stays online only. It can start that way, but eventually I'd want us to live together.
I just feel like lately the world is just getting worse and worse. Regressive politics, ai shoved into everything, the rich shamelessly taking more and more. It makes me want to find someone to build a cabin with and live off grid somewhere. I don't have kids and I don't want any. I don't smoke. I drink occasionally. Love animals, but I don't currently have any pets.
I'm 5'11", about 370 lbs, white, I have a beard and glasses. I'm uncut if that matters to you. I'm bisexual and would greatly prefer a partner who's into open relationships. Monogamy is not something I'm interested in.
Personality and connection matters much more than looks to me, but in general I like darker hair, curves, and a nice ass. I'm attracted to women who are kind and friendly with a dirty mind and a good sense of humor.
My kinks include eating ass, voyeurism, piss play, bondage, spanking, giving and receiving oral and anal sex. I only have a few limits, blood and hard violence. I like a lot of affection and touching. Cuddling and making out. I give good aftercare. I look forward to getting to know you and discovering everything that turns you on. We can talk about anything and I promise never to judge you.
In my free time I like to watch movies and YouTube, I enjoy woodworking, sports, cooking and baking, listening to music and podcasts and learning new things.
Send me a chat if you want to see if we'd be a good fit.
Posted Dec 29, 2025, 2:58 AM UTC · locked