40 [M4F] #WI #CST #MIDWEST Let's spend the rest of the year getting to know each other!

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I hope that your Christmas was great!! Let's spend the rest of the year getting to know each other and build on that into the new year!!

Santa was good to our kids here but I couldn't help but to think that something was missing...that is where you might come in and be that unwrapped present that hasn't been found and opened yet.

I am hoping to find this present that is looking for the same thing as me... I'm looking for someone who has the time and effort that is needed to make a potential lasting relationship. The texting throughout the day, when comfortable the voice notes, video calling. Pics throughout the day to include each other in our daily lives, to make it feel real.

I am hoping to find that person who wants the emotional connection, the butterflies...yes it's so cliché, but the spark that is missing. Talk about anything and everything. Let's be vulnerable together. Let's have coffee dates in the morning to talk about our day!

So, me...I'm 40, married and 3 school aged kids. Professional job which I love from Wisconsin. I workout consistently/few times a week and am generally overall healthy conscious. I also do believe that attraction is important but subjective. That is why I think attraction is so important but so is the effort and communication.

I have hobbies, in the summer I love being outside and working in the yard. Staying active outside. I am active in my kids life and participate in their sports and activities!

This is a long post, I know. But I genuinely am looking for something lasting, long term and just one person! If you're up for the challenge and wanting long term...I hope to hear from you!

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 2:58 AM UTC

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