Di ako nag greet ng merry christmas sa friend group ko

I am in my 20s and only have 2 friend groups both from high school. Nitong pasko, hindi ako nag greet doon sa groupchat ng isa kong friend group and it went dead, wala ding bumati sa kanilang dalawa. Hindi na ko bumati kasi lately, napapansin ko ako lagi nag iinitiate makipag meet tapos hindi naman lagi natutuloy, minsan game sila tapos biglang mag cacancel or walang pa ramdam before day ng lakad, twice na nangyari yun this year. Ang hirap na rin nilang hagilapin simula nung nag ka jowa sila. I was hoping they would greet and mag aya ng meetup kaso wala talaga.

While my other friend group naman, kahit may jowa sila, naaya naman pag available, yung isa nga kahit hindi pinapayagan uminom pero sumama pa rin one time nung nag bar kami (di naman namin siya pinainom at alam ng mga jowa nila na sa bar kami pupunta). They make time when they're available.

I miss talking to them about life and everything and I really want to meet them but I don't want to look needy like how I've felt every time di natutuloy lakad namin. Should I greet them this new year and ask them for a meet up or am I just watering dead plants?