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41 [M4F] Southern California - Introverted Leftist / Minimalist seeking a similar soul

Living in Southern California while trying to maintain a real anti-consumption lifestyle can be a bit lonely. I’m a 41-year-old male who is firmly on the left—it’s not just a political lean for me, it’s how I live. I’m a minimalist, I actively avoid buying new things, and I’d rather repair something than replace it.I’m looking for a Black woman, ideally $5'2''$ or under, who shares these leftist values. If you're neurodivergent, or at least understand and value that perspective, we’ll probably get along great.The daily vibe:Introvert life: My ideal night is a quiet one. No bars or big crowds.Media: I’m usually reading (currently bell hooks), watching TV, or gaming (I've been deep into Satisfactory lately).Communication: I am a high-volume texter. I like to stay in touch and talk throughout the day. I’m looking for someone who actually enjoys maintaining a real, consistent conversation.I'm perfectly happy to start as just chatting and see where the energy goes. If you’re a leftist in California who prefers fixing things to buying them and wants a dedicated chat partner, send me a message.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 2:59 AM UTC

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