Do you think these subtle gestures could possibly indicate that this guy could somewhat like or at least not dislike me?

I’m aware that these are dumb examples as they could be coincidences.

  1. Stopped me to check my ID says hi first. I don’t go to clubs or bars a lot but I notice the doormen typically don’t say hi unless you’re a regular.
  2. I was hungry and asked about food. He bypassed my question and prolly thought I was making excuses to not show my id. He then says “do you don’t have your id with you?”. I don’t if this is a sign of annoyance. But he kind of sounded curious.
  3. Then the person I was with who he didn’t care to ask their id for showed them theirs and I showed them my id. They asked him about food too. I began smiling at him nervously and he turned to look at me for more than a few seconds instead of just turning away immediately. Even though they only had one thing on the menu he said in an enthusiastic way as if to lure us on. Idk if he thought my smile was signaling to him to promote the food so the person I was with could go in I’ve no idea.
  4. Came with my friend and his back was turned to us as we entered he turned around (my friend was in front)looked at her for a mili second then looked at me and his eyes kind of popped and he asked me if we have our ids. He didn’t say hi this time.
  5. Didn’t ask for our ids idk if he remembered us. Came by our table to clean up. Didn’t bother coming by our table to take our stuff idk if he thought we were still eating. I felt maybe he looked at me from the distance idk though.
  6. Came by by myself i bypassed the line to check ids he didn’t stop me. Idk if he just remembered me or thought I was of age or figured the bartenders would id me. There was nowhere to sit so I sat at the bar. He came by the counter asked the people next to me if they’ve been helped. He then took a shot of something and then started working in front of me. Didn’t say anything. This other worker asked him something and his voice was really quiet. He came by a couple more times to work. Then when I walked away from the counter I noticed he kind of stopped coming to the bar and just remained outside.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 3:00 AM UTC

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