slang for topping?

hey y'all. i'm writing a scene between two men in a relationship where the top makes a joke to the bottom about them "switching it up" and having the bottom top for once. i don't think it would be in character him to straight up just say, "why don't you top for once", but i can't think of any other way to phrase it, other than him being like, "why don't you give it to me for once", which i don't think he'd say either. 😭

i'm a woman who identifies as a lesbian, and i usually take on the "bottom" role during sex myself. this whole debacle is making me realize that there are so many clever euphemisms us bottoms, but i can't seem to think of any for topping for the life of me!! please help!😭