34 [F4M] Upstate NY. Plus size lady looking for what's already mine 😊

Hello there! 👋🏽 I'm not exactly new here but this is my first post. I'm ultimately looking for my best friend/something long term but I'm pretty new to dating so I'm not completely sure how to do that. I'm looking for someone who is sentitive yet strong, compassionate and kind, pensive, goofy, and not afraid to share what's on his mind. Someone open-minded who enjoys taking control or leading while still being open and receptive to feedback. 31-50 would be my age preference.

As for me, I work full-time, have my own place/car so I'm looking for someone with the same. I'm relatively quiet until I get to know you. I've lived in very outdoorsy towns but most of the time you'll find me behind my computer working or trying to find a new series to get into. I enjoy TV (mainly animated and/or sci-fi), reading, swimming, puzzles, random conversations with strangers, painting, and learning something new (crocheting most recently!).

Also, I am a proud BBW and comfortable in my own skin, so if your preference tends to skew to the smaller end of things, feel free to move on. No hard feelings n thanks for dropping by 😊

Anything else you need to know about me from the start?

• 5'10, Black, long locs.
• Demisexual.
• 420 Friendly.
• Cat lover who's never had one.
• Halloween enthusiast who isn't the biggest fan of horror. I know, I know, I can't make it make sense lol sorry.
• Overall Fall/Winter lover. From the beautiful multicolor trees to essentially living inside of the snow globe, I love it here the Northeast!
• ISTJ.
• Leftist/ Liberal. Annoyingly so. 😅
• Aspiring Data Analyst.
• Naturally curious and kind. (Note I said kind, not nice. So please don't be surprised by my directness.)
• Open to helpful feedback and constructive criticism.
• Acquired an electric bike over the summer and I'm really sad about putting it away for the winter season 😭
• I have no interest in having kids nor acquiring friends with kids.
• Audiobooks! I've fallen back in love with reading recently so that's taken over my TV time/interest. I enjoy sci-fi/fantasy with little to no romance. Some recent loves would be Blood over Bright Haven, Babel, and Red Rising (of course). I do have a preference for female/BIPOC authors.
• In the process of learning to play the cello from scratch so any pointers or secret cheat codes would be greatly appreciated. 😣

Thanks for taking the time to read my longest post ever! 🌻 If you're intrigued and share my love for meaningful conversations and cozy fall vibes, I'd love to hear from you!