AITAH for saying I don’t want to be with a girl because she’s still a virgin?
I’m 19M. And lost my virginity a few weeks after my 16th birthday. Which is probably average age I think. I recently met this girl who’s 18. And we were getting along really well she’s really hot. The discussion around sex came up. I asked if she wants to fuck at some point. She said yes and we were sending eachother pics and stuff.
I asked her what her body count is and she said she’s still a virgin. I think that’s sort of a red flag. Most people aren’t virgins by 18 unless they have some type of mental problems or are super religious or something.
I’ve never met a girl who’s a virgin over the age of 18 who didn’t fit into those categories or extremely ugly or fat. Which to be fair she’s not.
I asked her why she’s a virgin still. And she said that she just hasn’t been able to find anyone yet. Which is a red flag because surely loads of guys out there wouldve been willing to do it with her unless she’s crazy or something?
I told her I don’t think it’s going to work out and she said that’s fine. But then she made a post on her private Snapchat story about how guys are such assholes and that they judge you if you’re a sl ut and they judge you if you’re inexperienced.
She didn’t directly name me but one of my friends is on her private Snapchat story and knew it was referring to me because I told him about the situation. He thinks I shouldn’t just gone for it because game is game and maybe she just needs help getting started. But like I don’t want to be involved if she’s crazy.
Posted Dec 29, 2025, 3:05 AM UTC