Looking for accountability partners for a 90-day NoFap restart

This year has been one of the lowest points of my life in almost every way.

I’ve never been this broke. I don’t have my own car. I was forced to move back in with my parents late last year after losing everything — my apartment, my savings, a truck I bought in 2020, my jewelry, and basically anything of value I owned. I also lost my business. I was a small business owner with a licensed, bonded, and insured operation, and watching that fall apart has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through.

I’m married (almost 16 years) and have a 14-year-old child, which makes all of this even harder to carry.

I moved back home hoping 2025 would be the year I rebuilt my life, but honestly it’s been one of the most disappointing years I’ve ever lived. I wasn’t able to get back on my feet financially, save money, or repair my credit. Instead, I fell into bad habits — hanging around the wrong crowd, drinking, gambling, staying out late, and waking up unfocused and unproductive the next day.

PMO became a way to escape the pain and frustration, and that’s something I’m no longer willing to accept.

I’ve tried multiple times this year to reach a 90-day streak and haven’t made it yet, but I’m not giving up. I’m recommitting starting today and taking the next 90 days seriously — one day at a time.

I’m looking for one or a few accountability partners who are also serious about breaking this cycle. Nothing complicated — just honesty, check-ins, and support when urges hit.

If you’re restarting or starting fresh and want to do the next 90 days together, comment or DM me.

Stay strong, brothers.