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5trange_Jake

25M4F, Nerd Guy 4 Nerd Girl, Buffalo, NY.

Explicit Activities/NSFW

About me: I'm an INTP, and as the title says I'm rather nerdy, I like anime ( currently watching One Piece and FireForce ), and reading — mostly scifi, but I have been getting into urban fantasy lately — , and I think ttrpgs look like they'd be fun to get into. I aspire to become a writer someday, the genres I'd like to write in are science fiction and urban fantasy. I should also mention that I have high functioning autism and ADD, but I don't use my conditions as an excuse for anything. Appearance wise, I'm a bit on the heavier side, though on the lower end, and I am working losing weight, I have blond-ish hair, including a beard.

What I'm looking for: A woman between the ages of 25 and 30 ( though it's not a problem if you happen to be a year or two outside that range ), who has similarly nerdy interests, is looking for a serious longterm relationship and doesn't take life too seriously. Also, someone who is willing to have the occasional deep / philosophical talk.

Although I'm fine with chatting over reddit initially, I would like to eventually video chat ( over discord ) just to make sure I'm not being catfished, you can never be too careful nowadays.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 3:06 AM UTC · locked

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