How are people meeting women these days (dating or even just friendship)?

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Dating apps feel broken now — full of spam, fake profiles, and scams.

Honestly, this is not even strictly about dating. Sometimes I just want to talk to a girl normally, as a friend, without expectations.

So I wanted to ask people here: How did you meet your girlfriend / partner? Or even — how did you make female friends?

Was it through:

  • College or workplace
  • Instagram or other social media
  • Gym
  • Trekking / travel groups
  • Parties or mutual friends

Are these still relevant, or do they feel outdated now? Is there any more organic or newer way people are meeting these days?

Would really like to hear real experiences.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 3:09 AM UTC

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