My foster mom changed after we made it official.

I chose to be put in a foster home for half of the week as my living situation wasn't the best. My mom knew this woman for years and I often went to visit. I also often slept over at her place. But after a while she asked my mom to pay so she could keep me fed. My mom couldn't always pay and so it was decided to choose foster care. Or they called it supporting-foster care, because of the situation.

But after it became official, she changed. It first started with her calling me a food addict which was a big projection. She eats like a starving pig and has gotten a bypass due to obesity.

Then she started with the mental health talks and the rules. Suddenly she made very strict rules and schedules that I had to follow. Alot of them were unreasonable imo. Like the time I woke up or when I was allowed to take a nap or have free-time. When mind you, this was meant for me to have entire days of free time.

Idc about doing chores that's fine, but she complained I never did them. she always did everything for me before I could do anything. She treated me and clearly saw me as someone who can't think or do anything for themselfs.

She was also always snooping trough my stuff, always moving things around and even started whining about what i do with MY money! Stated that it seemed like a small amount and asking if I spent anything. (I didn't)

She Also throughout this kept insulting me by hiding it as caring words. Saying I'm just different mentally and that she is here for me. Anything I said she would find some deeper psychological reason behind. Like when I said I'd defend myself if someone broke into my house, she stated that I must have alot of anger to want to hurt someone..

It got to a point where I started to resent her, anytime she talked I was annoyed.

She said the N-word and insulting words constantly. She told my business and mental health situation ( WHICH MIGHT I ADD WASN'T EVEN TRUE!) To others.

With that I mean that she came up with theories and such as to what I'm thinking and feeling and said this to everyone she knew! She genuinely thinks I have depression and am suicidal when that isn't the case. And even if it was, why did she have to tell everyone about this?

She is extremely inpatient, can never wait 5 seconds. Is always doing multiple things at once. She called me her child, her boy, her family.

I was sick of it, we got into an argument over text and she refused to let me in the house. Basically weaponizing this, she probably tought i still wanted to go for my peace (which was why i started this in the first place) and I decided I had enough, I said I stop and im collecting my stuff.

When we went to her house she didn't open the door, we went to the police because I had important medicine at her place. The police didn't fucking help one bit, said they couldn't force her to give it or open the door. I had to fight with foster care, her and the police for atleast 2 weeks to get my stuff back.

Once I was allowed to pick it up, she started guilting me, talking bout sum "and I had a present for you for Christmas.. idk why ur doing this bla bla"

She kept giving me extra stuff.

Something I forgot to mention, she wanted to open a credit card or bank acount or whatever it's called in English, so she could put money on it and I could spend it. I said no to that, I did not want her to police even more what I do with my money.

and when I went to pick up my stuff she said this "I opened that bank account but you can only get acces once ur 25"

Do you know how furious I am?? I'm genuinely afraid she can ruin my credit score or something with this. I don't want an account under my name that I can't even access!!!!!! I don't trust it, and I'm scared this will ruin My future

I hate her, no wonder her kids went no contact and her husband divorced her.

Idk If my language is allowed, with the cursing and insults. I don't know how reddit works to be honest I'm also almost 18 before yall think I'm 13 or something. My texting is kinda teenager-ish I know