SRS sensitivity issues
Hello! I got my SRS done by doctor Jess Ting in February of this year and honestly I've been struggling.
I have little trouble dialating and I have maintained depth and width as needed. I can routinely get all of the white dots on the orange dialator consistently in like 5 minutes tops.
My issue is that nothing really feels good. Sexual, my clit isn't the most reactive. Neither is my g-spot. And even if I stimulate both of them at the same time, it takes a lot to maybe orgasm
Now to be clear, there are a lot of reasons this could be. I have depression and take meds for it. Im probably still healing or whatever.
Still as a person who was (and is) very sexual active, I'm very disheartened. One of the largest parts of my previous dysphoria was caused because my dick didn't work consistently and wasn't all that enjoyable to use, but at least it felt good to play with at times.
Now It feels like I'm just mostly numb or uncomfortable down there and I don't know if something is wrong with me or if I'm being impatient or if I'm just unlucky and I have to live with the fact that my body just doesn't receive pleasure well.
Really im looking for guidance from people who are farther along in this journey than I am because RN I'm feeling very hopeless. Like I did all of this work just to have another type of genetalia that fails me.
Posted Dec 29, 2025, 3:09 AM UTC