What is going on here? (F30 - M36)

Hello! At this point I need a different perspective on what is going on here. I have a boyfriend, but sometimes this guy (36) texts me for sexting. We used to sext a lot when I was 19 and he 25. Even though we liked each other so much and could figure it out for a night together, he always had excuses. I was single. Back then I found out he had a girlfriend and we ended the online relationship.

No matter how many years go by, he always texts me for online sex and he has said he loves me. Currently, he lives in a different country and has no girlfriend as far as I know. Last year he came to our country and we finally had sex. We had an online sexual relationship all this year and now he is acting as he did back then full of excuses. This time, he is not in a relationship.

He texts me to see each other and then stops replying. He wants me to go to his house which is far away, but the idea is a motel because we don’t have a place. i ask him to get an uber so I can pick him up and then we go, but he is resentful that I don’t pick him up. Where is his effort?

I am not saying he is a bad guy or me. I just want to understand why if he likes me and we had a great time last year, he is acting like that again?