It’s ok if you are muscular or plus size.

many of my CD friends have smaller chests and waists than me.

I want to snap my fingers and be that tiny and feminine too.

but it doesn’t look good on me as a man.

Yesterday I accepted I can’t lose anymore weight as a man. I like my muscles, I like being handsome.

despite not being ultra passable….. I‘m still happy as a CD

it’s all about balance. Accept the unique individual that you are.

instead, focus on pretty wigs , hip pads, flattering outfits and brilliant makeup ! Let’s put a little effort into our appearance, girls!

let‘s be fabulous AND comfortable in our skin!

to all the current besties and new friends in 2026, let’s make our presence felt AND impress the naysayers while living our best self.