LDR with no end

I broke up with my ldr bf of 5 years. Every time we would see an each other in person we would argue about very silly issues and I would feel drained after i would go home. We also had no plan to be able to close distance in next couple years other than marriage but neither are ready for this as we’re still in our early twenties.

I’m very sad to have broken up especially as he was saying he would have fought for us and he didn’t focus on the issues. But in my mind if we’ve been having these issues the past year and no changes after discussions then it made sense.

Looking for any tips or advice? Shall we consider getting back together has anyone been in this position?