Had a breakthrough with my boyfriend and trying to tell myself to slow down as we explore next steps, advice appreciated.

Boyfriend(m29) has always been shy and I’ve(f26) encouraged him to be more open about what he wants. I’ve always known he likes me to wear particular things but that’s the extent of kinks and sexual preferences I knew he had. I’m more experienced and really enjoy playing the submissive role. Over the weekend I took a shot and told him I wanted him to dress me up how he wants and when I came over he had a very specific outfit for me that he said he had bought and had been trying to get the courage to ask me to wear. It wasn’t what I was expecting but I felt so sexy and submissive being told what to do and I could tell I rocked his world.

This led to some good sex and after a few glasses of wine I kind of pressed on him to see what he liked about telling me what to wear. The conversation moved in the direction I was hoping and I told him I loved being told what to do. I could tell this was super exciting for him and he seemed nervous but intensely aroused by the whole thing and particularly when I asked if he would explore some D/s elements in our relationship.

Now I’m just super giddy and trying to tell myself to take a breather and slow down but I’m also wondering what people think the best next step is. I recommended to him that we start with him picking all my clothes since we know it’s something we both like and are comfortable with. Obviously I want more but am just trying to find the best approach. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.