To be honest introverts need to get a grip

as me saying this as an introvert, but I’m not avoidant Many of introverts, I have come across and seen they are avoidant as fuck….. I can sympathize with people draining your energy and etc but at some point it’s like you need to learn how to deal with and I also feel like many introverts are narcissist - they always be there for them for a little pick me up, but could never could be there when you need them