Anyone find sexual position make a difference in how emotional sex is

Hi I'm a 38m and been with my partner 40f for 18 years.

I have come out as Demisexual which now based on my life has made sense but just want to ask if this is just me or does other Demisexuals feel the same way.

Does any other Demis feel that during sex the position affects the emotional connection. For example I found that Missionary or positions where I'm able to see the face and touch the face feel very emotionally intense where positions that are not intimate like Doggy style or reverse cowgirl feel more mechanical and sometimes I even struggle to finish as I feel emotionally disconnected though if I can touch the body with my hands that helps.

Same as spanking I find totally disjoints me sexually