43 [M4F] #Irvine - Looking for a FWB interested in a Stag/Vixen dynamic

Hi everyone,

I want to find a FWB dynamic that makes the friend side of things and connection first and foremost. I’m somewhat demisexual, I guess, in that I need to feel a connection with someone, but it doesn’t always need to be romantic. I’m also potentially open to more than a FWB if the situation is right. A ride or die does sound appealing but don’t really walk out pressure on anything and prefer things to grow organically.

I’m in the process of starting new businesses, and this will eat a fair amount of my time, so I want to be upfront about that, but I also believe we all need to have some fun in life too! Ideally I’d like to be able to get together a few times a week still.

About 2 years ago, I began hosting play parties with my roommate and her boyfriend and have made some incredible friends through this experience. I believe strongly in being a part of this community and would like someone who is open to being in the lifestyle and enjoying the stag/vixen dynamic. I’m more of a voyeur in party settings but would prefer a partner that enjoys play in parties or group play in general. I’m not bi but may be open to exploring a bit there and would like someone supportive of that.

I believe strongly in honesty and transparency and not playing games. I’m a kind and giving person and need someone who isn’t a taker, or it will never work. Reciprocity is super important for balance. I’m also a very empathic person who feels very deeply and I’m working more on being able to set boundaries in all facets of life.

Lastly, I’m a big white guy, but I’m on a journey to fix this. I’ve lost more than 50 lbs already this year and see a trainer 3 times a week, so it’s important for me to have someone who wants to be active. I’ll never be a skinny guy most likely, and I don’t need a partner to be a gym rat, but conscious of health and longevity is very important to me now. Obviously, there is balance here, and I love to binge-watch some tv but I also like to get out and have fun and do things way more now. Love a great concert or checking out different types of art or museums!

I hope we can chat more and see if we’re a good fit.