AITAH if I breakup with my bf because of what the store clerks told me about him?

Hey Reddit long time lurker yada yada yada LOL

Ok here’s the issue. I (f49) have/had a bf (m67) and he has gone to my cannabis store to pick my up products on 3 different occasions.

I have a spinal cord injury that causes an unbelievably amount of pain and I use cannabis instead of pain meds because I like my kidneys and liver!

In anycase he has gone in with the funds I PROVIDED and a picture of the item and gets it. As far as I knew these were uneventful errands and all was well.

I have not personally been in the store for about a week. So imagine my shock when in chopping it up the the store clerks when one of them turns to me and says “can I tell you something?” I was like sure! She then tells me and the entire shop stops to validate what she’s saying. Well he COMPLAINS about me and him having to get this for me EVERY TIME HE’S BEEN THERE!

This might be a good time to mention he also uses topical cannabis products for his pain. I use gummies . So he’s not uncomfortable buying it. He’s just upset that he has been asked to buy it for me??

Whatever his issue is, that’s embarrassing. And they looked embarrass for me when telling me.

So yeah I’m done.

Being in a relationship with someone is optional, you don’t have to be there. So being in one and complaining about it is a no go for me. Or am I wrong?

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 7:52 PM UTC

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