Looking for a new OBGYN

I (21F) have been going to Suffolk OBGYN for a few years now and every time I leave crying and in pain for one reason or another. They’re very rough and I’m very sensitive down there. I’ve discussed concerns with them that are brushed off or forgotten about. I’ve seen multiple doctors with no luck at finding one who will genuinely listen to what I have to say. The only reason I’m still there is because they take my insurance. I’m now willing to pay out of pocket no matter the cost to see someone highly recommended who is known for caring for their patients. Please please please let me know if anyone has any recommendations of gentle and caring obgyns in the Long Island/NYC area. 🙏