About Stormfather (Oathbringer spoilers)

I just read the part that Kaladin is trying to save the humans in Revolar when the Highstorm hits. He asks the Stormfather to stop the storm but the spren rejects.

How can Stormfather judge Kaladin for breaking his oath during the assassination of Elhokar and telling him he „killed“ Syl and make him feel miserable for him not acting „honorable“, but when he tries to do the honorable thing he refuses to help?

How is it even possible that a „memory of Honor, the fragment that remains“ bring such destruction and ruin (pun intended)?